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Thursday, December 19, 2013

U.S. says visas from gay spouses to USA will get equal treatment

WANT TO GO TO THE USA? If you gay you can now! Just like the women finding men before now its men finding men to find a better life.  Great news for those intelligent enough to make it happen.....
Gays and lesbians ecstatic: US okays visa petitions for same sex marriages

A nice gay US citizen man immediately consulted with me when he learned of Napolitano’s directive. He wanted his long-time boyfriend in the Philippines who could not get a visa to migrate to the US. When I explained that the new USCIS policy (re: same sex marriages) does not mean that he could marry his boyfriend in the Philippines and then file an immigrant visa petition for him, he was on the verge of crying. Such a marriage could not be used because same sex marriages are not legal in the Philippines.

But he came out of my office ecstatic and crying with joy when I told him that he could file a fiancée visa petition for his boyfriend.  Under the new USCIS policies consistent with the Supreme Court decision and the directive of Secretary Napolitano, though yet untested, it is likely that the fiancée visa petition will be approved.  If so, the boyfriend can come to the US in a few months and then they can get married here in California where same sex marriages are legal after which the guy would get his immigrant visa.  Read the full original article at this link
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http://globalnation.inquirer.net/79903/gays-and-lesbians-ecstatic-us-okays-visa-petitions-for-same-sex-marriages
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American Embassy in Philippines issues first visas to gay couples
  http://www.guampdn.com/article/20131210/NEWS01/312100006/Embassy-RP-issues-first-visas-gay-couples

Manila LGBT lauds US Embassy's 1st same-sex fiancé visa
http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/global-filipino/12/14/13/manila-lgbt-lauds-us-embassys-1st-same-sex-fianc%C3%A9-visa
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 How do I apply for a Fiance Visa?

http://www.genuinefianceerelationship.com/how-fiance-visa.html


DHS to reconsider immigration petitions for gay couples

The new guidelines also allow U.S. citizens to bring those they're engaged to into the country ahead of scheduled marriages.

"As long as all other immigration requirements are met, a same-sex engagement may allow your fiancé to enter the United States for marriage," the guidelines state.
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http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2013/07/26/immigration-gay-marriage-doma/2589073/
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Which States Allow Gay Marriage?
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http://www.care2.com/causes/what-states-allow-gay-marriage.html
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U.S. says visas from gay spouses to USA will get equal treatment

Secretary of State John Kerry, announcing the measure at the U.S. embassy in London, said the shift will allow the department to start processing requests from married gay couples the same way it handles those from heterosexual spouses.

"As long as a marriage has been performed in the jurisdiction that recognizes it, then that marriage is valid under U.S. immigration laws. Every married couple will be treated exactly the same, and that is what we believe is appropriate," Kerry said.
Read the full original article at this link copy and paste in browser
http://www.reuters.com/article/2013/08/02/us-usa-gays-visas-idUSBRE9710NT20130802
http://globalnation.inquirer.net/79903/gays-and-lesbians-ecstatic-us-okays-visa-petitions-for-same-sex-marriages
http://news.yahoo.com/u-says-equal-treatment-visas-gay-spouses-135211394.html
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Sponsoring a Fiancé or Spouse for a Visa or Green Card
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http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/sponsoring-fiance-spouse-green-card-30169.html

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 What makes you think you can change me, if i can’t? You can ask just about every gay, and I know for a fact they’ll answer that it’s not a choice. Why would you argue against the ones that would actually know?

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Do you only read part of the religious book?


Former U.S. President Jimmy Carter Says Jesus Would Have Loved The Gays

 http://www.queerty.com/former-president-jimmy-carter-says-jesus-would-have-loved-the-gays-20140924



Oh, good lord: the usual "I'm not homophobic, but..." comments. Yeah, the Bible teaches "lying with another man..." is a sin, but so is wearing a cotton/poly blend (Lev 19:19). Hell, it teaches that disobedient children should be put to death,  that the "Tattoo Lifestyle" is a sin, but that keeping slaves isn't. Clearly, some sins are more equal than others. And if being gay is an "Alternative Lifestyle," than who leads "The Heterosexual Lifestyle?" Paris Hilton? O.J.? Larry Craig? Cher?


  I am very, very sad for those of you who claim to be Christian and yet do not know your Bible's history, and who clearly have never read a single history book. Same-sex love has been around as long as we have. The Bible, including its condemnations, was written by people, with political agendas. O do you just believe what people tell you to because they are at the head of the room in a robe passing out the wine and bread? Because I've got a loaf and a bottle of merlot right now.

Invoking Religion/faith  isn’t just for conservatives anymore


You don’t have to be Christian to know the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do to you. In fact, scholars note that it is the one precept common to all major faith traditions. But in his interview with ABC’s Robin Roberts on Wednesday, President Obama cited the Golden Rule as found in Matthew 7:12 when describing the role his Christian faith played in leading him to support same-sex marriage.


“When we think about our faith,” he explained, “the thing at root that we think about is not only Christ sacrificing himself on our behalf, but it’s also the Golden Rule. . . . Treat others the way you would want to be treated.” 


Announcing to the nation that he thinks that same-sex couples should be allowed to marry wasn’t the first time Obama has linked his Protestant beliefs to his support for specific policies. In his address at the National Prayer Breakfast this year, he credited his faith for inspiring policies as diverse as funding for medical research and eliminating tax breaks for the wealthiest Americans. “Living by the principle that we are our brother’s keeper [and] caring for the poor and those in need,” Obama said, are values “that have defined my own faith journey.”


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 The Bible has been used to justify a lot of really disgusting things, and eventually we somehow managed to conveniently ignore the passages that talk about slavery, rape, murder and subjugating women (among other delightful fare).

Biblical Contradictions
http://www.evilbible.com/Biblical%20Contradictions.htm

Strong drink was forbidden in the Bible
http://www.salembible.org/biblestudies/issues/alcohol/alcohol_4.htm

Every Biblical Argument Against Being Gay, Debunked Biblically
http://www.upworthy.com/every-biblical-argument-against-being-gay-debunked-biblically



Opposition to gays’ civil rights has become one of the most visible symbols of American civic conflict this year (1992), and religion has become the weapon of choice. The army of the discontented, eager for clear villains and simple solutions and ready for a crusade in which political self-interest and social anxiety can be cloaked in morality, has found hatred of homosexuality to be the last respectable prejudice of the century.

Nine biblical citations are customarily invoked as relating to homosexuality. Four (Deuteronomy 23:17, 1 Kings 14:24, I Kings 22:46 and II Kings 23:7) simply forbid prostitution by men and women. Two others (Leviticus 18:19-23 and Leviticus 20:10-16) are part of what biblical scholars call the Holiness Code. The code explicitly bans homosexual acts. But it also prohibits eating raw meat, planting two different kinds of seed in the same field and wearing garments with two different kinds of yarn. Tattoos, adultery and sexual intercourse during a woman’s menstrual period are similarly outlawed.
They accuse others of perverting end distorting texts contrary to their “clear” meaning. They do not, however, necessarily see quite as clear a meaning to biblical passages on economic conduct, the burdens of wealth and the sin of greed. Nine biblical citations are customarily invoked as relating to homosexuality. Four (Deuteronomy 23:17, 1 Kings 14:24, I Kings 22:46 and II Kings 23:7) simply forbid prostitution by men and women. Two others (Leviticus 18:19-23 and Leviticus 20:10-16) are part of what biblical scholars call the Holiness Code. The code explicitly bans homosexual acts.

But it also prohibits eating raw meat, planting two different kinds of seed in the same field and wearing garments with two different kinds of yarn. Tattoos, adultery and sexual intercourse during a woman’s menstrual period are similarly outlawed. There is no mention of homosexuality in the four Gospels of the New Testament. The moral teachings of Jesus are not concerned with the subject. Three references from St. Paul are frequently cited (Romans 1:26-2:1, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 and I Timothy 1:10). But St. Paul was concerned with homosexuality only because in Greco-Roman culture it represented a secular sensuality that was contrary to his Jewish- Christian spiritual idealism. He was against lust and sensuality in anyone, including heterosexuals. To say that homosexuality is bad because homosexuals are tempted to do morally doubtful things is to say that heterosexuality is bad because heterosexuals are likewise tempted. For St. Paul, anyone who puts his or her interest ahead of God’s is condemned, a verdict that falls equally upon everyone.

And lest we forget Sodom and Gomorrah, recall that the story is not about sexual perversion and homosexual practice. It is about inhospitality, according to Luke 10:10-13, and failure to care for the poor, according to Ezekiel 16:19·50: “Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fullness of bread and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.” To suggest that Sodom and Gomorrah is about homosexual sex is an analysts of about as much worth as suggesting that the story of Jonah and the whale is a treatise on fishing. Part of the problem is a question of interpretation. Fundamentalists and literalists, the storm troopers of the religious right, are terrified that Scripture, wrongly interpreted, may separate them from their values. That fear stems from their own recognition that their “values” are not derived from Scripture, as they publicly claim. Indeed, it is through the lens of their own prejudices and personal values that they “read” Scripture and cloak their own views in its authority.

We all interpret Scripture: Make no mistake. And no one truly is a literalist, despite the pious temptation. The questions are, By what principle of interpretation do we proceed, and by what means do we reconcile “what it meant then” to what it means now?” These matters are far too important to be left to scholars and seminarians alone. Our ability to judge ourselves and others rests on our ability to interpret scripture intelligently. The right use of the Bible, an exercise as old as the church itself, means that we confront our prejudices rather than merely confirm them. For Christians, the principle by which Scripture is read is nothing less than an appreciation of the work and will of God as revealed in that of Jesus. To recover a liberating and inclusive Christ is to be freed from the semantic bondage that makes us curators of a dead culture rather than creatures of a new creation.

Fortunately, those who speak for the religious right do not speak for all American Christians, and the Bible is not theirs alone to interpret. The same Bible that the advocates of slavery used to protect their wicked self-interests is the Bible that inspired slaves to revolt and their liberators to action. The same Bible that the predecessors of Mr. Falwell and Mr. Robertson used to keep white churches white is the source of the inspiration of the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. and the social reformation of the 1960’s. The same Bible that anti-feminists use to keep women silent in the churches is the Bible that preaches liberation to captives and says that in Christ there is neither male nor female, slave nor free. And the same Bible that on the basis of an archaic social code of ancient Israel and a tortured reading of Paul is used to condemn all homosexuals and homosexual behavior includes metaphors of redemption, renewal, inclusion and love – principles that invite homosexuals to accept their freedom and responsibility in Christ and demands that their fellow Christians accept them as well. The political piety of the fundamentalist religious right must not be exercised at the expense of our precious freedoms. And in this summer of our discontent, one of the most precious freedoms for which we must all fight is freedom from this last prejudice.

Peter J. Gomes Professor of Christian Morals, Harvard University;Minister, American Baptist Church

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http://www.queerty.com/gay-teen-eviscerates-every-religious-argument-against-homosexuality-20140902

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Slavery http://www.evilbible.com/Slavery.htm
http://www.openbible.info/topics/slavery
Rape http://www.evilbible.com/Rape.htm
Murder http://www.evilbible.com/Murder.htm
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Steve Denver says

According to the popular myth, Jesus lived at home until he was nearly 30, his mom thought he was God, he never dated any girls, his only female friend was a prostitute, he enticed 12 men to leave their careers and families and hang out with him, he turned water into WINE (not beer), he walked on water (light in his loafers?), his hair was beautifully conditioned (according to all the popular pictures), he could raise the dead, threw his own going away party and then had a fit when everyone fell asleep in the garden: “YOU DON’T LOVE ME, DAMMIT!”

He spoke against many things, but never said a word about homosexuality.
I’d say Jesus was somewhat gay.

http://www.queerty.com/former-president-jimmy-carter-says-jesus-would-have-loved-the-gays-20140924

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If I Have Gay Children: 4 Promises From a Christian Pastor/Parent


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Coming Out to the Church: A Sermon
Gay Teen Eviscerates Every Religious Argument Against Homosexuality

I want to dedicate this video to my Parents and to my family. It has been a long journey since I came out in 2010. This video is the product of 5 years of praying, researching, and loving.
(I am currently 18. I came out at 15, after I had already started studying. Sorry for the confusion!)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHxfFfyFdKA
 

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